Relational Strategist & Systems Architect
I identify the hidden emotional and systemic patterns blocking individuals, couples, and businesses from breakthrough - then architect the structures that dissolve them.
I channel disruption.
I identify the underlying emotional architecture of a situation before it's been fully articulated. Then I deliver the insight that cracks reality open.
I don't give advice - I create rupture points that force visibility on what's being avoided. These are the moments where current understanding breaks down and something new becomes possible. I disrupt the story being told so a truer pattern can emerge.
My work isn't information transfer. It's direct engagement that shifts how people think, see, and operate. I work through the relational field itself - the way I mirror, challenge, and hold space reorganises systems in real time.
I see what’s dying.
This is my core diagnostic capacity. I perceive what's already dead but still being animated - in relationships, in businesses, in you. I help you recognise what needs to end so something true can move.
I interrupt calcified patterns. I identify the invisible dynamics preventing your desired outcome. Then I architect the conditions for their dissolution.
I teach thinking in systems at scale.
I don't operate from traditional frameworks. I reveal the hidden architecture governing current reality - the unconscious rules, inherited patterns, and invisible agreements that dictate outcomes.
Then I install new operating systems. This works whether I'm with an individual rewiring their relational patterns, a couple redesigning their dynamic, or a business restructuring how power and communication actually flow.
Most people are trying to solve surface problems with surface solutions. I teach systems-level thinking - the capacity to see how everything connects, what's actually driving behaviour, and where the leverage points for real change exist.
My clients aren't buying strategy or advice. They're buying proximity to someone who can hold paradox, see through illusion, and reflect back hidden truth.
The problem I solve.
Most relational and business challenges don't get solved because the real pattern is invisible.
People see symptoms - conflict, stagnation, recurring breakdowns, teams that can't execute, relationships that feel stuck. But they're addressing the wrong layer. The actual problem is structural: outdated patterns running beneath conscious awareness, governing every interaction and outcome.
I make the hidden pattern visible. I show people what's actually happening - the emotional logic, the systemic dynamics, the calcified structures they've been unconsciously maintaining.
Then I help them redesign it.
Who I work with.
I work with people who present complex problems, can handle intensity, and value transformation over comfort.
Individuals
Relational pattern recognition and dissolution at an identity level. I help you see how your relationship dynamics express your unexamined operating systems - then consciously redesign them.
Couples
I perceive the relationship as its own organism with hidden dynamics, defence mechanisms, and evolutionary trajectory. The relationship is my client, not the individuals in it. I can articulate what's dead or dying in the dynamic with precision.
Businesses
Systematic pattern recognition and architectural redesign. I help businesses see the invisible dynamics preventing their desired outcomes, then architect the conditions for new patterns to establish.
The transformation.
My clients don't just solve the problem they came in with - they reorganise how they think, operate, and relate at a fundamental level.
They stop running on inherited patterns and outdated programming. They see the invisible dynamics that were governing their reality and consciously redesign them.
Individuals rewire their relational operating systems. Couples rebuild their dynamic from the ground up. Businesses restructure how power, communication, and decision-making actually flow.
The result isn't incremental improvement. It's structural transformation - internal and external systems realigned with who they're becoming, not who they've been.
Work with me.
These appointments are entry points into deeper strategic work. Most clients move into ongoing retainers after their initial assessment.
Individual Pattern Assessment
60 minutes | $450 + GST
A focused session to identify the hidden relational and systemic patterns governing your current situation. You'll leave with clarity on what's blocking you and the structural shifts needed to move forward.
Ongoing work: Monthly retainer of $900 + GST (3 x 30min sessions) for continued pattern work and relational redesign.
Couples Dynamic Assessment
90 minutes | $850 + GST
I work with the relationship itself as a living system - identifying what's dead, what's dying, and what wants to emerge. This session reveals the invisible patterns governing your dynamic and maps the path to conscious redesign.
Ongoing work: Monthly retainer of $1,800 + GST (2 x 60min sessions) for sustained relational transformation.
Business Alignment Assessment
30 minutes | $500 + GST
A high-level diagnostic assessment. We'll unpack your challenges, identify invisible dynamics, and determine if there's strategic fit for deeper work. You'll leave with clarity on what's blocking your desired outcomes and how I can help architect the shift.
Ongoing work: Custom retainer structures designed for your businesses needs (starting at 4.5 hours per month).
Who I am.
Pattern recognition wasn't something I studied - it's how I survived.
I've spent 14 years developing the capacity to see the invisible architecture governing someone's reality before they've fully articulated it themselves.
Every pattern I help people break, I've lived, survived, and alchemised into something useful.