If you're reading this, it's because you want couples help. But you might also be here because you're confused - because on June 2, 2025, I pivoted my business to working exclusively with women... so let me explain.

Since making this pivot, I've been overwhelmed by requests from those of you asking me to work with you as your relationship advisor - specifically for couples work.

I get it.
You've seen the transformation in the women I work with (or someone who has worked with me before in this space has referred you), you want that same level of honesty and strategy applied to your relationship, and you know I have 13 years of couples work behind me.

But here's what you need to understand about why I made this pivot in the first place.

For 13 years, I worked as a relationship coach. I loved helping couples find their way back to each other, rebuild connection, and create partnerships that actually worked. The vast majority of my couples work was incredibly rewarding - watching partnerships transform, seeing people reconnect, helping relationships thrive.

But it only took one bad apple to make me reassess everything.

I take my role as an advisor seriously. When I called out toxic behaviour from a male client who was systematically undermining his relationship, I expected the same level of professional respect I've always brought to this work. Instead of taking accountability, he chose to attack me verbally for doing exactly what he hired me to do - tell the truth.

That moment clarified something important: I refuse to work in environments where my professional integrity is met with abuse.

This wasn't about him having power over me - it was about me recognising that I have a choice in who I work with. It made me realise that while most couples I'd worked with were committed to growth, I had a booking system that would allow me to accept client bookings who weren't aligned with my values around respect, accountability, and honest communication.

That's not the work I'm here to do anymore.

So I made a choice. I pivoted to working exclusively with women - helping them see the patterns keeping them stuck, reclaim their power, and stop accepting dynamics that drain them.

But because so many of you have been asking, let me be clear: I haven't completely closed the door on couples work.

However, if I'm going to work with couples again, it will only be under very specific conditions:

✓ Both partners must demonstrate genuine commitment to change - not just showing up to prove they're right

✓ Both individuals must share my values around respect, accountability, and honest communication

✓ Both people must be willing to examine their own patterns, not just point out their partner's

✓ 6-month minimum commitment - because real transformation doesn't happen in a few sessions

✓ Rigorous application process - I need to know you're both serious before we begin

✓ Significant investment - because this work is intensive, transformative, and not for everyone

This isn't couples therapy. This is strategic relationship restructuring for partners who are truly ready to do what it takes.

I learned that my energy is precious, my boundaries are non-negotiable, and my work deserves to be met with the same level of respect I bring to it.

So yes, I hear your requests. And if you're in a partnership where both people are genuinely committed to showing up differently, where respect isn't optional, and where you're both ready to do the deep work - then we should talk.

But if you're looking for someone to fix your partner or validate that you're the "good one" in the relationship, I'm not your person.

My standards aren't negotiable anymore. And neither should yours be.

6-Month Couples Advisory Package

Investment: $45,000 + GST. What you get:

Monthly Deep Dive Sessions

• 6 x 90-minute strategic relationship sessions (one per month)

• Intensive pattern analysis and real-time restructuring

• Both partners required to attend every session

• Sessions are recorded for your reference (confidential)

Individual Strategic Check-ins

• 12 x 45-minute individual sessions (one per partner, monthly)

• Private space to process, plan, and strategise without your partner present

• Address individual patterns affecting the relationship

• Personal accountability and growth tracking

Crisis Support Access

• Direct access via secure messaging for urgent relationship crises

• 48-hour response guarantee for critical situations

• One emergency 60-minute session per month if needed

• Strategic guidance for navigating high-stakes conversations

Relationship Restructuring Framework

• Custom relationship blueprint based on your specific dynamics

• Written strategic plan with clear action steps and accountability measures

• Quarterly relationship health assessments

• Progress tracking and recalibration as needed

Complete Confidentiality Guarantee

• All sessions, communications, and materials bound by strict confidentiality

• No testimonials, case studies, or public sharing

• Private, off-the-record partnership throughout

Post-Program Integration Support

• Two 60-minute follow-up sessions (months 7 and 9)

• Relationship maintenance strategies

• Long-term sustainability planning

Investment: $45,000 + GST

This is strategic relationship restructuring for partners who are serious about transformation. Application required. Both partners must demonstrate genuine commitment before we begin.