There's no formula here. No program to follow, no framework to work through, no predetermined idea of what your life, business or relationship should look like on the other side.

What there is - is a completely private space where the real conversation can finally happen. I work with what you actually bring, not a sanitised version of it. I say what I see, clearly and directly. Sometimes that's uncomfortable. Usually it's a relief.

And I do it without judgment, without agenda, and without ever repeating a word of it.

I've worked with individuals and couples across every kind of relationship imaginable for over 14 years.

Affairs and betrayals. Relationships that exist completely outside the mainstream. Decisions that couldn't be brought anywhere else. Secrets carried for years. Shame that had never once been said out loud.

The range and depth of what I've held is what allows me to meet people exactly where they are, without flinching, without referencing a textbook, and without needing the situation to be simpler than it actually is.

This isn't a career I fell into. It's the work I was built for. And honestly? I still love it.

You're reading this because you want to know who you're about to trust with something you haven't told anyone else. That makes sense. I'd do the same.

So here's me, unfiltered. And I do mean unfiltered.

I can tell what someone is thinking without them opening their mouth. I've been told this is unsettling. I think it's just paying attention.

My brain works fast, notices everything, and has absolutely no interest in small talk. I'm a Taurus - I come alive at night, I love the darkness, and I find the parts of people they don't show anyone infinitely more interesting than the parts they do. Which is convenient, given what I do for a living.

I've burned my own life to the ground and rebuilt it. I don't flinch at other people's messes because I've made a few spectacular ones of my own. I joke with my clients. I swear occasionally (read: a lot). I will absolutely tell you what I actually think - kindly, directly, and without turning it into a therapy session about your childhood unless your childhood is genuinely the problem.

I'm queer, married to my wife, and a mother. Although almost two decades ago I was married to a man, and divorced. What a time. I've lived both sides of the binary most relationship advice is built around, which is probably why I don't buy into it.

I've also heard the assumption plenty of times, that being queer makes me a man-hater. It doesn't. I don't hate men, I hate patriarchy. If a woman calling out men on their shitty behaviour makes a man feel attacked, like they've stumbled into some "man-hating feminist," they're not my client. They are however part of the problem and need therapy (and if you're dating a man who hates women, you should probably reconsider).

I drink too much coffee and I take my clients' secrets to the grave. In that order of importance, obviously.

Confidentiality above everything. What you bring to me stays with me, always, without exception, covered by a mutual NDA as standard for those who want it.

No judgment. Ever. Not of your relationship structure, your desires, who you love or how, your business, or your situation. I don't have a predetermined idea of what a good relationship looks like and I'm not here to impose one.

Honesty over comfort. I'm not here to make you feel better about a relationship that needs to change. I'm here to tell you the truth, kindly, directly, and without softening it into something easier to receive.

Your terms. The help you get here is built around what you actually want, not what's convenient, conventional, or what someone else told you a relationship should look like.