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You love him. But somewhere along the way, you started disappearing.
Maybe it happened slowly - you stopped mentioning your needs because his seemed more urgent. You became his emotional support system while yours went unmet. You started managing his relationships, his moods, his entire social world while your own friendships withered.
Or maybe you've been performing the "perfect girlfriend" for so long you don't remember what you actually want anymore.
This audit is specifically designed for women in heterosexual relationships - examining the unique patterns of self-sacrifice that show up in these dynamics.
This isn't about whether your relationship is "good" or "bad." It's about whether you still exist inside it.
Built from 14 years of couples coaching and sitting with women who've systematically erased themselves for their male partners, this diagnostic reveals exactly where you're bleeding yourself out to keep him comfortable.
36 targeted questions across the areas where women disappear most in heterosexual relationships: emotional labour, sexual performance, identity erosion, communication patterns, social management, and boundary dissolution.
You'll discover your specific martyrdom profile and get concrete next steps for reclaiming the parts of yourself you've sacrificed on the altar of being a "good girlfriend."
Some relationships can handle you taking up space again. Some can't. But either way, you deserve to know who you are underneath all that self-sacrifice.
$97 + GST. Digital download. Immediate access.
You love him. But somewhere along the way, you started disappearing.
Maybe it happened slowly - you stopped mentioning your needs because his seemed more urgent. You became his emotional support system while yours went unmet. You started managing his relationships, his moods, his entire social world while your own friendships withered.
Or maybe you've been performing the "perfect girlfriend" for so long you don't remember what you actually want anymore.
This audit is specifically designed for women in heterosexual relationships - examining the unique patterns of self-sacrifice that show up in these dynamics.
This isn't about whether your relationship is "good" or "bad." It's about whether you still exist inside it.
Built from 14 years of couples coaching and sitting with women who've systematically erased themselves for their male partners, this diagnostic reveals exactly where you're bleeding yourself out to keep him comfortable.
36 targeted questions across the areas where women disappear most in heterosexual relationships: emotional labour, sexual performance, identity erosion, communication patterns, social management, and boundary dissolution.
You'll discover your specific martyrdom profile and get concrete next steps for reclaiming the parts of yourself you've sacrificed on the altar of being a "good girlfriend."
Some relationships can handle you taking up space again. Some can't. But either way, you deserve to know who you are underneath all that self-sacrifice.
$97 + GST. Digital download. Immediate access.